When do you consider yourself as "dating" someone?
So I ended up with my date last night. But we weren't really out on a date...
I was at that stage kind of fed up with the whole situation. He's been giving me mixed signals the whole week and it's giving me kind of a whiplash!!
Decided that I had shown him enough interest and that the next move would be up to him, or I would just forget him. Went out to a pub with Micke, my new flatmate.
Ended up at another pub later with Tariq and a few other girls from work. We had great fun. Only thing that caused me some stomache ache was the fact that my date was in the same pub, ignoring me...
When the last call for alcohol sounded, I saw that he went to the bar, and I thought that I'll give this one more shot, and that I would explain to him that he's giving me a whiplash. I came, he smiled and I was back at square one. Asked him about his evening bla bla bla. And then told him that he just have been ignoring me this whole evening. He said that he sent me a text the minute I arrived and he saw me, asking me to "look right", he said that I looked at my phone, looked at him and then ignored him. I apologized and said that I hadn't looked at the phone since I arrived and that I would have come up to say hi if I'd seen it.
We agreed that we would meet up after the pub closed and see if we could go somewhere else together.
I left earlier with my friends, standing in a group, chatting a few hundred meters from the pub, when one of the girls says "turn around". I turn around, and he stands there. I say hello and smile, and turn back to say something to my friends. They're all gone!! They all disappeared within less than 10 seconds, completely abandoning me! ;)
We ended up buying pizza, going back to his place, and sat up talking all night..again.
I asked him this time if he wants to see me again, and he does. Yey. And he have apologized for giving me a whiplash, wasn't his intention. Right...
We will see each other next week, probably. :) and I'm a huge huge smile!!
So, let's take it one day at a time and we'll see if this works out or not. I'm not in a hurry. :)
I was at that stage kind of fed up with the whole situation. He's been giving me mixed signals the whole week and it's giving me kind of a whiplash!!
Decided that I had shown him enough interest and that the next move would be up to him, or I would just forget him. Went out to a pub with Micke, my new flatmate.
Ended up at another pub later with Tariq and a few other girls from work. We had great fun. Only thing that caused me some stomache ache was the fact that my date was in the same pub, ignoring me...
When the last call for alcohol sounded, I saw that he went to the bar, and I thought that I'll give this one more shot, and that I would explain to him that he's giving me a whiplash. I came, he smiled and I was back at square one. Asked him about his evening bla bla bla. And then told him that he just have been ignoring me this whole evening. He said that he sent me a text the minute I arrived and he saw me, asking me to "look right", he said that I looked at my phone, looked at him and then ignored him. I apologized and said that I hadn't looked at the phone since I arrived and that I would have come up to say hi if I'd seen it.
We agreed that we would meet up after the pub closed and see if we could go somewhere else together.
I left earlier with my friends, standing in a group, chatting a few hundred meters from the pub, when one of the girls says "turn around". I turn around, and he stands there. I say hello and smile, and turn back to say something to my friends. They're all gone!! They all disappeared within less than 10 seconds, completely abandoning me! ;)
We ended up buying pizza, going back to his place, and sat up talking all night..again.
I asked him this time if he wants to see me again, and he does. Yey. And he have apologized for giving me a whiplash, wasn't his intention. Right...
We will see each other next week, probably. :) and I'm a huge huge smile!!
So, let's take it one day at a time and we'll see if this works out or not. I'm not in a hurry. :)
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